Valentine’s Day Alert: Protect Yourself from Online Romance Scams

Valentine’s Day Alert: Protect Yourself from Online Romance Scams

As Valentine’s Day brings people closer, it also becomes an opportunity for scammers to exploit emotions and deceive individuals looking for love online. Pennsylvania Attorney General Dave Sunday is urging residents to remain vigilant against online romance scams, commonly known as “catfishing.”

These scams are rising across Pennsylvania and the entire country, especially during Valentine’s season when many feel lonely and seek companionship. Scammers use this emotional vulnerability to build trust and steal money or personal information.

“Scammers know no limits in targeting Pennsylvanians,” said Attorney General Sunday. “This behavior is both callous and calculated, and it’s essential to stay alert. Protect yourself and your loved ones.”

How Scammers Operate

Online romance scammers are skilled at gathering personal details about their targets. They scour social media to learn about their victims, making their interactions seem genuine and trustworthy. By the time they make their move, they’ve often gained their victim’s trust.

Once a connection is established, these scammers typically:

  1. Move the conversation off dating platforms: They often persuade victims to switch to messaging apps like WhatsApp or Signal, which provide more privacy to scammers.
  2. Avoid video calls or in-person meetings: Scammers frequently make excuses to avoid direct interaction that could reveal their true identity.
  3. Pretend to be from the U.S. but claim to be abroad: Commonly, scammers pose as someone working overseas, making it difficult for their victims to verify their stories.
  4. Use inconsistent contact details: They might reach out from different phone numbers, email addresses, or profiles.
  5. Invent dramatic excuses: They plan to visit but cancel due to emergencies or work conflicts, keeping their victims hooked.
  6. Change their personal stories often: Scammers might frequently alter details about their background, such as the number of siblings or where they live.
  7. Isolate their victims: They may discourage victims from confiding in family or friends about the relationship.
  8. Request money or personal details: Scammers often ask for funds, gift cards, or cryptocurrency under false pretenses.

Common Red Flags

Attorney General Sunday warns people to watch out for these signs of potential scams:

  • Fake dating profiles: Many scammers create fictitious accounts on dating apps.
  • Suspicious text messages: A text like “We haven’t talked for a while—hope you’re okay” could be bait.
  • Friend requests on social media: A Facebook request from someone you barely know or don’t recognize could be a scammer’s attempt to connect.

Tips to Stay Safe

The Pennsylvania Office of Attorney General’s Bureau of Consumer Protection recommends taking the following precautions:

  • Be cautious if someone wants to move conversations to private messaging platforms.
  • Question why someone refuses video chats or face-to-face meetings.
  • Verify claims of overseas work or travel and be skeptical of inconsistent stories.
  • Never send money, gift cards, or cryptocurrency to anyone you’ve only met online.
  • Avoid sharing personal or financial details with new online acquaintances.
  • Pay attention to behavior that isolates you from loved ones or seems overly secretive.

What to Do If You’re Targeted

If you think you’ve been a victim of an online romance scam, there are several ways to take action:

  1. Report it: Contact the Pennsylvania Bureau of Consumer Protection by visiting their website, emailing [email protected], or calling 1-800-441-2555.
  2. Inform dating platforms: Let the website or app where you met the scammer know about their activity.
  3. Notify authorities: File a complaint with the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) or the FBI’s Internet Crime Complaint Center.

Final Thoughts

Online romance scams exploit emotions and trust, leaving victims not only financially strained but emotionally drained. This Valentine’s Day, take precautions and educate others about the signs of such scams. By staying informed and cautious, you can protect yourself and help prevent others from falling victim to these deceitful schemes.

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